What is an opportunist?
It’s one thing to spot and profit from a circumstance easily, and it’s another when your morals, principles, and values are compromised. Establishing a relationship is often formed through heartfelt connection and interest. However, it is undeniable that there are people who don’t exactly have our best interests at heart. Opportunists are individuals who have mastered the art of exploitation. These people are willing to abandon their integrity and morality to gain benefits without doing the actual work. They lurk in every corner, like a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Learning to discern those who genuinely value you from those who leech off you and get benefits without effort will help you preserve your peace and maintain healthier, more harmonious relationships.
Key Traits of Opportunism
- Lack of morality
- Opportunism is at the heart of justification. These individuals rationalize their wrongdoings as long as they get what they want in the end. They oftentimes lack prudence and disregard the possibilities of consequences to their actions in the future.
- Used to cutting corners instead of doing the actual work
- Opportunistic people often neglect doing the actual work and much prefer seeking the easy way out, usually by means of others’ misfortunes. In other words, they gain achievements through association.
- Transactional mindset
- To them, loyalty is lukewarm. These people treat others as stepping stones, showing up only when they need something and seeking only the benefits of the relationship.
- Use excessive flattery
- Also known as a sycophant. Opportunists use charm and flattery to hide their true nature until it is too late. On top of that, opportunists flourish by pretending to have pure intentions, all while draining you emotionally, mentally, and sometimes financially.
- Constantly competes
- Opportunistic people struggle with celebrating another person’s wins, for they believe that another’s success is a threat to their own.
How to Protect Yourself from Opportunists
- Learn how to say no.
- Opportunists thrive on people-pleasers and those who avoid conflict. Utilizing clear and direct language will help you clearly establish your boundaries.
- Take things as they are.
- Opportunists can be very persuasive with their words. Thus, in these situations, it is important to value actions more than words.
- Practice discernment
- Have they been continuously taking something from you and suddenly disappear when you go through misfortunes? Take a moment to think about how certain people in your life are there for you.
Connections should not be merit-based but rather for a deeper sense of community and love. It’s dismaying how we encounter these kinds of people in our daily lives, even in respected institutions. However, in every situation, there is a positive aspect; in this case, immediate clarity. Recognizing an opportunist early can save you years of torment, and if you’ve just discovered you’re dealing with one, you can stop overextending yourself.
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